the taking of your own life

Hi Everyone

I am going to elimanate any names or connections in this blog, I feel the need to write something, tonight I have spent sometime with someone who was going to take his own life and was hospitalised on staurday night for attempting to do so..............

It has affected me and someone I love dearly, this is the 6th time this has happened in my lifetime, so wanted to post something revolving around feelings. today was connected as our last loss was someone special who took his life in 2003. I spoke with this person at 10:30hrs and by the time I came back from work at 5:30hrs he was gone. I visited his grave today and took away the wreath from xmas and done some thinking, I also think now of the happy times we had, but sometime I was down when going up, spending to much time on the moment of hearing about his death, so message one to everyone, let that part go and think of the whole life, look at the life you have with love one and celebrate each moment,, you will feel differently.

Over the weekend I have been angry as we could have lost someone alse to suicide, I have spent some time with him tonight, the surroundings are depressing, no carpets, no wall paper, no heating, how can people live like this in 2010. I have given HIM a lifeline, he has to invite me to pick him up via a text message on tuesday morning 7am, he has been released from hospital but has to attend his GP.

BABY STEP ONE: Text me tomorrow by 6:30pm to say he wants to attend my open day in academy.

Step 2: he attends open day

step 3: he attends a council session with one of my partners to get professional help, start the journey here

step 4 attends day 1 of my academy..............................then we commit to nor more for now, this is start of journey.

My wife is upset, but I am angry, very angry, I feel I in last year have sorted myself out with living with other suicides and we nearly have another one, I have used timelines with this person tonight, taking him back to a time when he was not like this, also spoke to him about negative langausge patterns and Results vs Reasons(excuses) = enhancement in life.

in life you get one of two things

THE RESULT YOU WANT

OR

LOADS OF REASONS WHY YOU DIDNT GET YOUR RESULT

I have discovered through my own experience in this area it ties back to language pattern, what you are telling yourself, you as the person have no control over your actions, so its the love ones to pick up on the signals, we all have a measurement on how our people close to us behave when we see this change please latch onto it and act, as it could be suicidial thoughts.

I have tonight sat beside the mother of this person and its not good, life is sucked from her also, so we will help, but the person has to look in mirror in the morning and ask what do I want, then when he finds that answer, he must find energy to text me, then next day will be to get energy to get up and make way down 9 floors into my jeep

I will shift your thinking but it starts with you, please stay with us, think of your family.............................

we will make this happen! its your lifeline, academy will change your life..................................

Posted by Stevie Kidd on 24 January 2010 in : KDS Training, KDS Youth Training, Kidd's Distribution Services - KDS Distribution, Personal Enhancement, Road Safety, Training corporate, Training employability

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